Yesterday someone posted one of those irratatingly annoying feathery stroker “words of wisdom” thingy-ma-jigs on facebook. Now I never read that crap. ‘Coz its as boring as….watching paint dry.
But….. and a BIG but at that….yesterday one of the sentences caught my eye.
It said…”If someone doesn’t like you…its none of your business”
Huh? That stopped me clean in my tracks.
If someone doesn’t like you…it’s none of your business.
And I thought about this. And I mulled over this the whole day. I’m still deliberating over this at the moment. In fact I think I may be contemplating over this sentence for a while.
It’s so true. ‘Coz if someone doesn’t like you, it really is none of your business. It’s their problem. It’s their business. They are the ones having to deal with this.
Why worry about something you can’t change? It’s a waste of time. It’s a waste of energy.
So…I dedicate this post to two girls in my “in-law family” that I spend so much time and effort over..I dedicate this to them. I love them, but I don’t like them. Well for the moment anyway.
I read somewhere that its easy to love someone. You love someone for life. But liking is SO much more difficult. You have to work at the liking bit. ‘Coz we don’t like everyone all the time do we?
But I know that I’ve worked hard at getting them to like me. I’ve been kind, and interested in their lives.
and well…..at the end of the day…when all’s said and done…
if they don’t like me…it’s their business.
‘coz whats not to like?